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There was always tomorrow, or later, or after the kids were older. And then it was too late. But we were married for 15 years.
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Photographs and memories on display Being ready to date and being ready to bring your date back to your house are two very different things. While I was ready to put myself back out there, my house remained a shrine to Leslie. Every room is filled with our family Lonely matures search singles dating chat wedding pictures.
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Leslie will never stop being their mother despite her passing. Though wedding pictures might get stored away, the family pictures are reminders of their mother and her love for them and need to stay up.
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She was and is an important part of my life and the lives of my children. Her memory will always be with us.
So we talk about it. Still, I probably should clean and organize that nightstand one of these days.
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